Back when you were plotting your online profile, the delete key and edit function bailed you out of blunders before posting to the cyber-nation. Even voicemail grants us the beloved # button to erase verbal mistakes and botched witticisms. But once in the real-time arena of dating in person, though, what’s to keep you from shoving a shoe in your mouth and blowing the whole affair? Like your fairy godmother, consider us on your shoulder for that first date, reminding you not to step into the usual bachelor potholes. Specifically, we’ll help you watch out for these 10 common dating pitfalls that spoil chances of an Act II and render your mojo limp:
話說,當你寫網絡介紹,在提交這前,都可以用“刪除”鍵和“編輯”鍵來保證其正確性。就算是語音郵件,你也可通過#(井字鍵)來刪除那些說錯了的話或是那些不成功的幽默話語。但是,一旦你是在和別人面對面地交流,有什么方法能讓你不著急,也不會將約會弄糟呢?如果你是第一次約會,考慮一下我們吧,我們能像你的教母一樣使你不致變成一個單身漢或老姑娘。尤其是我們會幫助你注意以下十種約會禁忌,讓你成功進入第二壘,成功晉級。
1. Scale back your time of possession.
In football, the team that holds the ball for long stretches on offense invariably wins the game. In dating, forget football Sunday. Instead of towering over the chitchat, shelve the Me, Me, Me and talk less. Unlike the star of a rowdy cable news roundtable, defer and listen to your guest. In the end, you’ll learn more and foul up less.
1.不要老是一個人說啊說
在足球中,持球防守最久的那一方總是會贏,但在約會中,請忘記足球。與約會中與其談一下這個又談一下那個,不如不要再說有關你自己的事而且記住少說話。與那些在一大堆的人中,很受歡迎的人相比,你最好是等一等,聽一聽對方有什么話要說。最后,你會學到很多,也不會把事情弄慒。