1. It's your fault! Sometimes, a financial decision goes bad, one of your children gets in trouble at school, or some household calamity occurs. And know this - things do go bad from time to time in any relationship. Decisions turn out wrong. Stuff happens! But the blame game never works! It alienates. It divides. It most certainly undermines trust and openness in your relationship.
1.那是你的錯!有時,會做出錯誤的經濟開支決定,你的哪個孩子在學校闖禍了,或者出了一些家庭災難。你需要知道,這些事情在任何家庭中都屢次發生。做出錯誤的決定,自然就發生了這樣的事。但是,“責備”絲毫不會奏效。它只會疏遠和離間你們,而且毫無疑問地會傷害到你們之間的信任和坦誠。