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WHAT HE SAYS: “I’m sorry you feel that way。”
WHAT YOU HEAR: “You’re being a psycho。”
WHAT HE MEANS: “I just really want this argument to be over。” Women like to hash things out, talking issues through from start to finish. Guys, on the other hand, have much more of a flight instinct when it comes to confrontation – especially if he doesn’t fully understand why you’re so upset。
他說：“你那么想我感到很抱歉。”
你的理解：“你神經兮兮的。”
他的意思是：“我真的不想再吵了。”女人們喜歡刨根問底，將問題從頭到尾說清楚。而另一方面，當發生沖突時，男人們本能地更想要逃避——尤其是當他不能充分地理解你為什么如此不悅的時候。
