WHAT HE SAYS: “Uh huh. Right. Yeah?!?BR> WHAT YOU HEAR: “I couldn’t be less interested in what you’re saying?!?BR> WHAT HE MEANS: “I want to hear your story, but it’s been 10 minutes and still no punch line2.” Men don’t process information in the lengthy way that women do, so telling him a story in the drawn-out way you would to one of your girlfriends isn’t going to work. In short, cut to the chase and you’ll get more of a reaction。
他說:“嗯哼。對。是的?!?BR> 你的理解:“我對你所說的事情一點都不感興趣?!?BR> 他的意思是:“我想聽你的故事,但十分鐘過去了你還是沒說出個所以然來?!迸颂幚淼男畔⑷唛L,而男人不是這樣,所以像跟你的一個姐妹淘閑聊那樣沒完沒了地講給他聽是行不通的??傊?,說話直截了當,你會得到更多回應。