4. Why do you always . . . Focusing on your spouse's weakness rather than building on their strengths will only increase their weakness and diminish their strength. This habit can send a relationship into a downward spiral if weaknesses are pointed out and commented upon. Success does breed success. Stick with the strengths and don't focus on weakness.
4.你怎么老是。。。?總盯著你愛人的缺點,而不是放大TA的優點,只會讓TA的優點更少缺點更多。指出并批評愛人的缺點,這一毛病會讓你們的感情每況愈下。成功孕育成功。多注意對方的優點,不要總盯著缺點。