In our many interviews with people “in love” we ask them the most revealing question of the interview – “When did you know you were in love?” We have heard very consistent answers over our 26+ years of interviews with couples in love. There are seven key indicators to know when you are really in love:

對戀人們的多次采訪后，我們都問了同樣的也是最露骨的問題—“從什么時候開始你意識到你戀愛了”？經過26年堅持不懈的采訪，我們得到了一致的答案，7種主要跡象表明你真的戀愛了。

1.Physical: People who say they are in love report getting “goosebumps,” “a palpating heart,” “sweaty palms,” “a tingling sensation all over my body.” People in love have a positive physical reaction when they think about or see the one they love.

身體上：如果戀人們見到或者思念他們的戀人，他們的身體通常會有一些相應的反應，例如，起雞皮疙瘩，溢于言表，手掌出汗，身體感到微微的顫動。

2.Emotional: When they think about or see the person they love most lovers report “an uncontrollable smile comes over my face whenever I see her,” and “I miss him when he leaves the room.” People in love feel emotions for the person they love that they do not routinely feel for others.

情感上：當你想念你最愛的人，或者看到你最愛的時，你會情不自禁的發笑，不僅如此，你會更加關心你所愛之人。

3. Positive worry: Over the years, we continue to be amazed about the consistency with which people in love report to us that they “worry about their lover” when they are not around. Thoughts about what we have come to call “positive worry” about the one they love begin to creep into their mind.

積極擔心：通過這幾年對戀人的采訪，我們驚奇的發現，如果你的另一半不在你身邊，你會不由自主的為他擔心，我們把對另一半的擔心成為積極擔心。

來源:可可英語 http://www.ccdyzl.cn/read/201012/122008.shtml