4. I-cannot-imagine-life-without-him: This is the point in love when you begin to think about the future – your future with the one you love. When you cannot imagine your life without her, you are in love!

沒有他，我將何去何從：展望未來，戀人們通常會想到這一點—和你所愛的人廝守終身，你無法想象沒有他的日子。

5. Oneness of your relationship: You begin to realize that you truly want this other person in your life. In our book, we refer to the notion of “turning two into one.” Everything changes from you and me, to WE!

行動一致：你開始意識到你真的希望和他在一起，用書中的一句話，用書中的一句話就是 “合二為一“。從你，變成了我們。

6. Pre-occupied love: Simply stated, you think about the one you love most of the time. You can’t get them out of your mind. You are in love with them!

鐘愛：簡單的說就是你無時無刻不在思念著你最愛的人，一旦你愛上了一個人，你就無法忘掉他。

7. Love itself and your ability to express that love: You finally have the courage to tell them you love them! You suddenly and out of nowhere are inspired to say I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! You shout it to the stars. You are in love!

讓愛和行動詮釋愛：當你終于鼓起勇氣向她表白，你會情不自禁的喊出，我愛你，我愛你，我愛你，你就真的步入愛河了。