5. Ask for your spouse's opinion and then do the opposite. We have heard from many angry divorced or almost divorced couples that this is the greatest indicator of "disrespect." If you ask where your spouse wants to go to dinner and he/she suggests a couple of places, then you select a different one, by your actions you said, "I do not respect your opinion and don't care what you think!"
5.問過你愛人的意見卻反其道而行。從很多憤怒的離婚的或即要離婚的人們口中,我們都有所耳聞,這是最大的“不尊重”。如果你問你的愛人想去哪兒吃晚飯,她說了幾個地方,而你卻挑了一個別的。你是在用行動告訴好:“我不尊重你的意見,也不在乎你怎么想。”