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How to make kids stop thumb sucking, nose picking?
怎樣改掉孩子挖鼻孔吮手指的壞習(xí)慣？
This morning on parenting today. How to break kid's bad habits from thumb sucking to nail biting. Paeditrician Lisser Thorsont has some explanations and solutions for parents. Dr. Thorston, Good morning.
今天早上的家長(zhǎng)育兒節(jié)目。怎樣改掉孩子挖鼻孔，吮手指的習(xí)慣。兒科醫(yī)生Lisser Thorsont給我們做出解釋，并給家長(zhǎng)們提供了一些解決方法。Thorston醫(yī)生，早上好。
Good morning.
早上好。
So, how do kids develop these bad habits in the first place.
首先，孩子們最初是怎樣養(yǎng)成這些壞習(xí)慣的呢？
Well, a lot of its are just natural, like thumb sucking. Very natural, babies do it in the womb and they do it when they come out, because thumb sucking is really soothing and feels good, and helps babies comfort themselves,in fact, babies suck their thumbs tend to comfort themselves more easily than those who don't suck.
許多這樣的習(xí)慣是與生育來(lái)的，比如吮手指。非常自然的，嬰兒們還在母親子宮內(nèi)的時(shí)候就這樣做，出生之后也會(huì)這么做，因?yàn)樗笔种阜浅Ｓ邪矒嶙饔茫屗麄兏杏X非常好，幫助嬰兒們自我安慰。實(shí)際上，吮手指的嬰兒比不吮手指的嬰兒更容易自我安撫。
It's very true , my oldest did that, and it comforted him right way. Oh, let's get to these five behaviour issues. A lot of parents complain about that they have to break their kids from these habits. And the first one is biting. And a lot of parents complaint about these. Why do toddlers even go there, why do they bite in the first place.
這是真的。我最大的孩子就這樣做，似乎非常容易自我安慰。讓我們來(lái)看一下孩子的五種習(xí)慣行為。許多家長(zhǎng)抱怨他們不得不想辦法改掉孩子的這些習(xí)慣。第一個(gè)壞習(xí)慣就是咬東西。許多家長(zhǎng)都抱怨這一點(diǎn)。許多蹣跚學(xué)步的人喜歡咬東西。那么最初他們?yōu)楹蜗矚g咬東西呢？
So common, and they tend to do between ages about 18 months and 3 years when they're just developing language, and they don't know how to express themselves. So a lot of time they would bite to say ' Hey, I was using that toy' or ' I'm not ready to go' or something like that. They don't communicate well.
非常普遍。大約是18個(gè)月到3歲之間的孩子最常見，這時(shí)候他們的語(yǔ)言正在發(fā)育，他們不知道如何表達(dá)自己。許多時(shí)候，他們咬東西只是為了告訴你：“看看，我會(huì)玩這個(gè)玩具了”或者“我還沒有準(zhǔn)備好”等等類似的事情。他們只是不會(huì)表達(dá)。
So, it's a frustration that is not necessarily,something they come from teething.
父母沒必要覺得沮喪，這是他們與生俱來(lái)的。
Right, and it's important for parents to know that it doesn't signal some awful behaviour problem in the future,although it is really devastating when your kid is a biter, and really annoying you when your kid gets bitten.
是的，父母?jìng)儽仨氈溃@并不表示將來(lái)會(huì)出現(xiàn)可怕的行為問題，這非常重要。盡管發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的孩子喜歡咬東西非常郁悶，非常氣憤。
Well, I like, we have a couple of our parents responded to that on our Facebook page. Christian wrote: My daughter started biting us, and we bit her back, she quit really quickly because she didn't want to be bitten. Is this the right way to handle this?
有一些父母在我們的臉書頁(yè)面上回復(fù)了我們。Christian寫道：我的女兒開始咬我們，我們也咬回她，她很快就不再咬人了，因?yàn)樗幌氡晃覀円?span style="display:none">[xY%MvA*_k_N&TLbR.A@。這種處理方法正確嗎？
Well, I guess it work for her. (yeah) but in general, it can backfire because some kids, well, say, mommy bites, it must be ok. So, you gotta be careful, the best way to do this is to try to figure out if there's a pattern to the biting. If you can sort of predict when your child might do it. And also, if they do bite the child, to point out for them, that hurts. We can not bite people. And you're hurting someone, and then allow the child to involve themselves in confronting the other child, putting a Band-Aid on if it's necessary or whatever.
我猜這種方法對(duì)她來(lái)說有效，但是總體來(lái)說，會(huì)事與愿違。因?yàn)橐恍┖⒆訒?huì)認(rèn)為，是媽媽咬我的，不會(huì)咬痛的。所以，你一定要小心，最好的方法是看一下孩子咬人是否有固定的模式。看一下自己是否可以預(yù)測(cè)他什么時(shí)候會(huì)咬人。同樣，如果他們咬其他孩子，告訴他們，這樣會(huì)很痛的。我們不能咬人。如果他咬傷了其他人，讓孩子自己解決，如果必要的話準(zhǔn)備好創(chuàng)可貼。
OK. Thumb sucking is next. And you know. I think some people who as you said, what's so bad about it, that's a self-soothing, let them go ahead and do it,But is there a problem with thumb-sucking as they grow older. I mean, obviously, not anyone 20 year old thumb sucking.
好的。接下來(lái)是吮手指的問題。你知道的。我認(rèn)為一些人會(huì)說，這種行為有多么糟糕。實(shí)際上，這個(gè)動(dòng)作確實(shí)有安撫作用。但是隨著年齡增長(zhǎng)，吮手指會(huì)不會(huì)成為一個(gè)問題。我的意思是，20歲的人還吮手指肯定不好了。
Well, that's for sure. And you can cause a dental problem, so you really don't want your child sucking their thumb too long once the teeth's coming in. Um, it's a natural habit but if it becomes a bad habit, sometimes other children will get them to stop,cause they may mention that hey you're sucking your thumb. But usually, it becomes sort of mindless thing for a lot of kids. So, if you just remind them, you're sucking your thumb. Then they can take their thumbs out, some kids need substitute like a blanket, or stuff animal, sometimes, you can substitute that,they will stop.
是的，這當(dāng)然。這會(huì)導(dǎo)致牙齒問題，所以，孩子的牙齒長(zhǎng)出來(lái)之后，你肯定不想他們繼續(xù)吮手指了。這是自然的習(xí)慣，但是一旦成為壞習(xí)慣，其他孩子會(huì)去制止他，他們會(huì)說，嘿，看呀，你怎么在吮手指。但是通常情況下，對(duì)許多孩子來(lái)說，這會(huì)成為無(wú)意識(shí)的行為。如果你提醒他，你在吮手指，他們可能會(huì)把手指拿出來(lái)，一些孩子需要一些替代品，比如毯子，或毛絨玩具，有時(shí)如果有替代品，他們這個(gè)壞習(xí)慣可以改掉。
Ok, Toya on Facebook page told us: My youngest three sons suck their thumbs. so we took athletic tape and wrap their thumbs and they stop. Is that possibly a solution or you know, some sort of way that prevents them or at least make them think about it.
Toya在臉書頁(yè)面上告訴我們，我最小的三個(gè)兒子都要吮手指，所以我們用運(yùn)動(dòng)膠帶把他們的拇指纏起來(lái)，他們就改掉了。這是不是防止他們吮吸手指的一個(gè)可行性解決辦法呢？
Yeah, that's what it does. So, when they put thumb in their mouth, oh, I gotta that athletic tape in, then pull them out. So, that's one way we'd tried.
是的，這樣做行得通。當(dāng)他們把拇指放進(jìn)嘴里的時(shí)候就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，哦，我把運(yùn)動(dòng)膠帶也放在嘴里了，然后就會(huì)拿出來(lái)。我們都曾經(jīng)嘗試過這種方法。
Ok, next one is nose-picking, very embarrassing, I knew my four-year-old went through a face while he was testing me on this one. So, what do you recommend parents do.
接下來(lái)就是挖鼻孔，非常尷尬的行為。我知道我四歲的孩子這樣做時(shí)曾經(jīng)讓我非常郁悶。那么，我們有什么好的建議給家長(zhǎng)們呢？
Nose-picking are super common. Next time you're in your car, the guy next to you, he might be doing this in his car. (hahaha) Very common, hehehe.. it's because(sadly, they want to grow it) that's right, some don't. The kids feel like there're something up there. Kids who are allergy tend to pick their noses a lot more than others because they have a lot of mucus in there. Teach them to use a tissue, to carry a tissue with them, blow their nose frequently. And you just can not get them to stop, tell them there's a place for. It's in the bathroom. And wash their hands so they're not passing germs from their nose to other people.
挖鼻孔非常常見。下次你開車的時(shí)候，你可能就會(huì)看到你隔壁汽車?yán)锏募一锿诒强?span style="display:none">;H,CrSE0]iTjXM4^#iEX。非常常見，而一些人則不會(huì)。孩子們會(huì)覺得鼻孔里有東西。一些孩子更經(jīng)常挖鼻孔是因?yàn)樗麄冇X得鼻腔里有很多粘液。教給他們使用紙巾，隨身攜帶紙巾，經(jīng)常擦鼻涕。如果你不能制止他們，就告訴他們正確的地方。可以去衛(wèi)生間，然后要洗手，這樣就可以防止他們把細(xì)菌傳播給其他人。
OK, cracking knuckles that's a bad habit as well. What is, first of all, what is the sound, where's coming from.
彎曲指關(guān)節(jié)也是一個(gè)壞習(xí)慣。首先，響指的聲音來(lái)自何處呢？
There's gas in your joints. And that gas builds up. and some people notice it more than others. And so they crack their knuckles,cause they feel like loosing them out. (Right)
關(guān)節(jié)里是有氣體存在的。氣體會(huì)逐漸累積。一些人更容易注意到這一點(diǎn)。這樣他們就會(huì)彎曲指關(guān)節(jié)，試圖放松。
How do you break this habit.
怎樣改變這種壞習(xí)慣呢？
Well, you know, you just gotta ask people to stop. You know, this is annoying. You can believe me ,you know what I mean.
你知道，你只需告訴他們停止就行了。你知道，這非常令人厭煩。相信我。你知道我的意思。
Very pleasing, I like doing it.
非常愉快，我喜歡這樣做。
So, again. This is something that you say, there's a place for that. Please do that in your room by yourself, or something like that, but it can be really annoying to the people around you.
是的，我們可以說，也有地方讓你這樣做。你可以在房間里自?shī)首詷罚侨绻绊懙街車娜司筒缓昧?span style="display:none">wh,---*f+6iH。
All right, Dr.Lisa. Thorston, great tips. Thanks so much.
正確。Lisa醫(yī)生，您提供的建議非常好。謝謝你。
