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跨越種族的婚姻和愛情
Are we losing too many good men to women of other races?
我們許多好男人是否倒向其他種族女性的懷抱了？
You know, it is very interesting.
你知道，這非常有趣。
It's a woman about the races to man, it’s a little bit…
這是女性種族之于男人的問題。
But if we are talking about, if we are talking about to other races, it’s very interesting ,because you know, I feel as black woman, you know, and I have men tell me this, when I say, you know, we are at the clubs. I’ve been raised I am old fashion. You are at the club, you know, take your butt all over there and be up in man's faces. You know I wanna wait for the men to come over and say "hey, how are you doing?”, but then you have other woman who ran up to the man and they treat them like, and I am saying I am black woman, and they are treated like they are adored, but if I do that, I got a name for myself. Because I run it up in your face, I don't know any black women, that could go out here and make a sex tape and get a cupcake line, a clogging line, a perfume line and be toddled round ON THE ARM, ON THE ARM of an ethnic like this is my girl because you know, when we do that kind, we call super haired. We call, you know, and so when I see this kind of stuff, I’m going, wow, I am a good woman here, I am trying to raise a good black man, a boy to be a good black man. But I don't feel like I am on put on the pedestal like the other women.
但是，如果我們說的是其他種族的問題，這非常有趣，因為你知道，我覺得假設(shè)我是黑人女性，曾經(jīng)有男人在俱樂部告訴我一些事情。我被人家抨擊不夠時尚。你知道，坐在酒吧里，坦胸露乳，搜尋著目標。你知道，我在等有男人走過來說，“你好，你在做什么？”然后就有其他女人跑到這個男人面前，表現(xiàn)得好像自己很受喜愛，很受尊崇。但是如果我這樣做的話，我會責(zé)備我自己。當(dāng)我跑到你面前的時候，我不認識任何黑人女性會這樣做，搞出性愛錄像，蛋糕約會，橫刀奪愛，濃妝艷抹，東倒西歪等等，因為你知道，如果我們這樣做，我們就會被貼上敗壞名譽的標簽。所以，當(dāng)我看到類似的事情，我會扭頭就走。我是好女人。我希望約到好男人，一個好的黑種男人。但是我不會像其他女人一樣讓男人把我放到臺上供起來。
Does that upset you that so many black men are married to, or dating to white women?
那么多黑人男子娶了白人女子，或者和白人女子約會，你是不是覺得很沮喪？
If you find…It doesn't upset me. If you with a woman that loves you, that is gonna treat you like you need to be treated. And she is of anther race, and then God bless you. But if you are saying but I meet a black man who go I don't wanna date, I date out the race, because you, all black women are too loud! So you put this, you make us as wide sward, you call this wide sward then hell black women are. I guess god done wrong by black men, but I’m not sitting here and go all black man is ass so I’m not go and forget all your, I don't do that! I go "no, there is some good black men out there”, but when you wanna date other races exclusive to us, yeah, then I get really upset.
我并不覺得沮喪。如果你和一個愛你的女人在一起，這是你應(yīng)得的。如果她和你種族不同，上帝也會祝福你。如果你說我遇到一名黑人男子，我不是想和他本人約會，只是純粹對這個種族感興趣，所有黑人女子都會憤怒的！如果你這樣做的話，你會引起所有黑人女性的公憤。我猜上帝對黑人男子做了錯誤的事情，但是我不會坐在這里罵所有黑人男子都是混蛋，所以我不會說，我會忘記所有人。我會說，“還是有其他好的黑人男子的，”但是如果你們約會我們之外的其他種族的女子，我就會覺得沮喪。
Absolutely. Absolutely.
當(dāng)然，當(dāng)然。
Just like they said, black women are the most loyal, that black men are the most likely to date outside their race and black women are the least likely to date outside their race. (We, yeah)Is it time for black women to open the door to possibility of dating outside their race?
就像別人說的，黑人女子是世界上最忠誠的，而黑人男子是最可能約會其他種族女子的，黑人女子是最不可能約會其他種族男子的。黑人女子是否應(yīng)該敞開心扉，增加約會其他種族男子的機會呢？
Based on the numbers, they are 1.8 million more of us than there are black men. You go down the number of men that are homosexual, so they don't want women at all; you have men who are already taken in a relationship with a woman married or have a boyfriend. (all my curse is in prison)yeah~you know, there are those that are in prison, and then there those that date outside of our race like Sherri said, they want nothing to do with black women.
根據(jù)數(shù)字，黑人女子的數(shù)量比黑人男子多180萬。還有許多男子是同性戀，他們根本不想要女人。還有一些男人和已婚或已經(jīng)談戀愛的女人在一起。還有一些在監(jiān)獄中，還有一些和其他種族的女子約會。他們不想和黑人女子有任何關(guān)系。
No.1, I think this discussion is about the issue is real, but it is kind of like a destruction, because at the end of the date, the vast majority, he knows this number, 90% of black men who get married, they marry black women. And then if we can look to some high profile black men in the media etc, and we act like this rampant prominent is much worse than it really is.
首先，我認為關(guān)于這個話題的討論是真是的，但是有點像是破壞，因為約會的最后，大部分人，90%的黑人男子娶了黑人女子。如果我們在媒體等地方看到一些高級精英黑人男子，我們就會認為這種卓越的人物實際上差得多。
