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日常產(chǎn)品背后匪夷所思的科學(xué)事實(shí)
How To Impress Literally Everyone You Meet
怎樣給遇到的每個(gè)人留下好印象
- Meeting new people can be intimidating.
與素不相識(shí)的人相見可能讓人心生畏懼。
Instead of worrying about how to make yourself feel comfortable,shift your attitude to focus on making the people around you feel comfortable.
不要擔(dān)心如何讓自己感覺(jué)舒適，改變態(tài)度，努力讓你周圍的人感覺(jué)舒服。
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If you're on your own at a party,join groups of three or more.They're typically more open to a new person.
如果你獨(dú)自一人參加聚會(huì)，加入由三人或更多人組成的小圈子。他們更容易接納新朋友。
Good job!
做得好！
When it's just two people,an unexpected third can feel like a crowd.
如果只有兩個(gè)人的小圈子，你的加入會(huì)感覺(jué)像路人一樣。
Don't wait for people to approach you.Approach them!
不要等著別人靠近你，主動(dòng)靠近別人。
Smile warmly, stand up straight,and make eye contact.
溫和地微笑，站直，進(jìn)行眼神交流。
Good things come to those who initiate.
采取主動(dòng)的人總是會(huì)有好運(yùn)。
Here, have a beer.
請(qǐng)喝杯啤酒吧。
Remember these words:
記住這些詞語(yǔ)：
- So, how about you?
你怎么樣？
- Invite them to tell you about themselves and to go in the direction they're most excited to go in.
邀請(qǐng)他們告訴你自己的情況，按照他們最感興趣的方向進(jìn)行對(duì)話。
Well, this is awkward.
太尷尬了。
One easy remedy for an awkward silence is food.
避免尷尬最簡(jiǎn)單的辦法就是談?wù)撌澄?span style="display:none">q+l|NfoRb*uQzE=。
Recipes, diets, restaurants,everyone has something to say about food.
食譜，節(jié)食，餐館，每個(gè)人關(guān)于食物都有一些話說(shuō)。
Stand and smile on phone interviews.
電話面試時(shí)要站直，微笑。
This improves the quality of your voice and will make you sound more confident.
這會(huì)改善你的聲音質(zhì)量，讓你聽上去更自信。
Hello!
你好！
Wait three seconds before answering questions.It helps you process the question and you won't seem rushed or nervous.
回答問(wèn)題之前先等三秒鐘。這樣可以幫你更好地思考問(wèn)題，也不會(huì)讓你聽上去倉(cāng)促或緊張。
When standing in a circle of people,open it up to allow a new person in.
和一些人站成一個(gè)圈子時(shí)，站開一點(diǎn)，允許新人加入。
You'll make a great impression on that person and on the other people in the circle.
你會(huì)給新加入的人和圈子中的人留下好印象。
- My mom plays ice hockey.- Wow.
我媽媽喜歡打冰球。——哇。
- When exiting a conversation,interrupt yourself, not them.
退出對(duì)話的時(shí)候，打斷自己的話，而不是對(duì)方的話。
Make it clear that you enjoyed the conversation and that you have a reason for leaving.
明確表示自己喜歡對(duì)話，你有不得不離去的理由。
- But I have to go to work,but it was great to meet you.- Great meeting you!
-我必須去上班了，但是很高興認(rèn)識(shí)你。-我也很高興認(rèn)識(shí)你。
- (chuckles) See ya.
再見。
- See ya.
再見。
- Hmm, nice guy.
嗯，不錯(cuò)的小伙子。
- What a gentleman.- Yeah.
-真是紳士。-是的。
- If I had a daughter, I would let her date him.
如果我有女兒的話，真想讓他們約會(huì)。
