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Although a winner can freely enjoy himself, he can also postpone enjoyment. He can discipline himself in the present to enhance his enjoyment in the future. He is not afraid to go after what he wants but does so in appropriate ways. He does not get his security by controlling others.
雖然勝者可以自由地享受歡樂，但他也能把享受推遲到以后。他能夠在現在克制住自己以增加將來的歡樂。他不怕去追求他想要的東西，但追求的方式是正當的。他并不通過控制他人來獲取自己的安全感。
A winner cares about the world and its peoples. He is not isolated from the general problems of society. He is concerned, compassionate and committed to improving the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international adversity, he does not see himself as totally powerless. He does what he can to make the world a better place.
勝者關心世界，關心各國人民。他并不游離于社會的普遍問題之外。他憂國憂民，富有同情心，獻身于生活質量的改進。即使面對著民族的和世界性的災難，他也不會認為自己完全無能為力。他竭盡全力以使世界更加美好。
"LOSERS"
“敗者”
Although people are born to win, they are also born helpless and totally dependent on their environment. Winners successfully make the transition from total helplessness to independence, and then to interdependence. Losers do not. Somewhere along the line they begin to avoid becoming self-responsible.
雖然人們生來應成為勝者，但他們也生來不能自立，完全依賴于自己的環境。勝者成功地完成了從完全依賴到自立、再到相互依存的過渡。而敗者卻沒有完成這一過渡。他們往往半途而廢，逃避為自己負責。
As we have noted, few people are total winners or losers. Most of them are winners in some areas of their lives and losers in others. Their winning or losing is influenced by what happens to them in childhood.
正如我們已經指出的，很少人是完全的勝者或完全的敗者。大多數人在其生活的某些方面是勝者，而在其他方面卻是敗者。他們的勝或敗受到兒童時代所遭遇的事情的影響。
