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But at the meantime, he wrote dozens of beautiful poems-some of them
而同時 他寫出了無數優美的詩篇 有些是
the most beautiful in the English language and numerous very powerful,
英語中最美的文字 以及許多非常強有力的
influential and beautifully crafted essays. And they were all "rough drafts".
具有影響的 結構精妙的文章 而他們都只是“草稿”
So there wasn't the pressure. This helped me a lot.
這樣就沒有壓力了 這給了我很大的幫助
Because what I do when I thought about this, I said, "OK.
當我想到這個時 我說 “好吧
So let's see one of the domains-where perfectionism
看看完美主義 對我
was very strong for me because it was an important domain-was teaching."
影響最深的一個領域吧 因為這個領域對我很重要 就是教學”
Then I said to myself, "OK." And this was close to 10 years ago.
我就對自己說 “好吧” 這是大約十年前的事了
I said, "in 20 years, I'm going to have a leadership institute in which
我說“二十年后 我會在名列前茅的
I'm going to be teaching. Amazing workshops and seminars and lectures.
學院中任教 能開很棒的學術報告和研討會
Until then, everything is rough draft. Until then, everything is preparation."
在那之前 一切都只是草稿 在那之前 一切都只是準備”
And that took off…Now I know this is a mental game.
這真的起作用了 我現在知道這是個心理游戲
I mean I know I am "fooling myself". Because in 12 years from now,
我知道我是在騙自己 因為12年后
when that goal is actually, when I'm there 20 years later,
等目標要到了的時候 20年到了的時候
I'm going to set another goal for 20 years later.
我會再定一個20年后的計劃
To liberate me so that I can enjoy the here and now.
來解放我自己 這樣我才能享受當下
So that I can enjoy the process, as opposed to be stuck on it having to be perfect,
這樣我才能享受過程 而不是執著于 要變得完美
flawless everyday experience, which it can never be.
毫無半點瑕疵 這是永遠無法達到的
So end goal can often be liberating. The Platinum Rule.
因此制定一個終極目標可以讓你解放 這是鉑金法則
So the Golden Rule: do not do unto others what you would not have done unto yourself"
黃金法則就是：己所不欲勿施于人
Or "do unto others what you would unto yourself."
或者說“己所欲方施于人”
The foundation of most moral systems, most religions today.
這是當今很多道德體系和宗教信仰的基礎
