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So if you chose certain path and now you regret it, remember, it really doesn't matter. You can be as happy in both paths as long as you are committed. Because when we are committed, that's when we can enjoy the journey.
如果你選擇某條路，卻又后悔了，記住，這不重要的，走哪條路你都可以開(kāi)心的，只要你投入了。因?yàn)楫?dāng)我們投入其中就能享受這旅程
Doesn't matter as much what it is that we are committed to, provided of course that is moral and it's not about hurting others, which ultimately doesn't just hurt others- it also hurts ourselves.
而我們投入于何事并不重要，當(dāng)然必須是道德的事，不能傷害他人，因?yàn)槟菢拥脑?huà)，最終不但會(huì)傷害他人也會(huì)傷害到我們自己
David Watson in "The Handbook of Positive Psychology": "Contemporary researchers emphasize "that it is the process of striving after goals— rather than goal attainment perse— that is crucial for happiness and positive affectivity."
大衛(wèi)·沃森在“積極心理學(xué)手冊(cè)”里說(shuō)“當(dāng)代研究學(xué)者強(qiáng)調(diào)追尋目標(biāo)的過(guò)程——而不是目標(biāo)的實(shí)現(xiàn)——才是實(shí)現(xiàn)幸福的關(guān)鍵”
And finally, two of the leading researchers in the field, David Myers and Ed Diener: "Happiness grows less from the passive experience of desirable circumstances than from involvement in valued activities and progress toward one goal."
該領(lǐng)域的主要研究學(xué)者戴維·邁爾斯和愛(ài)德·迪納說(shuō)：“幸福感在理想情況下的消極體驗(yàn)中的增長(zhǎng)比在有價(jià)值的活動(dòng)以及實(shí)現(xiàn)目標(biāo)的過(guò)程中的增長(zhǎng)要少”
Here is a beautiful poem that I think captures by Gwendolyn Brooks: "Live not for battles won / Live not for the-end-of-the-song / Live for the along."
這有一首優(yōu)美的詩(shī)，由女詩(shī)人關(guān)朵琳·布魯克絲所寫(xiě)的：“不為勝利而活，不為曲終而活，為美好過(guò)程而活”
