And to be happier is the present that matters much more.
想變得更快樂,當下更重要
Quote from my book: "Happiness is not about making it to the peak of the mountain, nor is it about climbing aimlessly around the mountain; happiness is the experience of climbing toward the peak. "
引用我書中的話:“幸福并不是登上山峰,也不是在山的四周沒有方向地亂爬,幸福是向山峰攀登的過程”
It is about having a goal. It is about having a destination in mind, and then letting go and enjoying the process.
它與設定目標有關,與設定一個終點有關,然后就釋放自己,享受過程
You know there are many people who talk to me about it, and again I went through the exact same experience.
有很多人和我談過這問題,每次我都會經歷同樣的情況

So OK "what is going to be the next job that I take?" "What is going to be the path that I take?" And once they take a path, it is very often they regret, "I should've taken the other path. " Should've taken this job. Should've gone there.
“接下來我要做什么工作呢?”“我該走哪一條路呢?”當他們選了一條路,通常都會后悔“我應該走另一條路”應該接這一份工作,不該去那里
And my response to it is it doesn't matter. It doesn't, in the ultimate currency, it doesn't matter. Because, yeah, let's say I am at a job that I should have taken and I would be very successful there. Fine. I would enjoy a high when I became very successful. But that in and of itself would not make me happy.
我的回答通常是,這并不重要。對終極財富來說,并不重要。因為如果我接了一份應該做的工作,我會非常成功,當我非常成功,我會很開心,但那件事并不會讓我開心
The key is to have the goal. The key is to have the commitment to whatever it is that I'm doing. Now that commitment may change every three days and that's OK. It's the having the goals, having that commitment that Nmatters.
關鍵是設定目標,關鍵是自身的投入,對正在做的事的投入,就算那種投入每三天變一次也沒關系,設定目標,全心投入才是最重要的