My teacher Ohad Kamin, when I graduated from college, and I was debating- I didn't know which direction to go, said to me the following- he said: "here is the advice from a 50 year old. " - He was 50 at the time.
我的老師歐哈德·卡明在我大學畢業時,我不知道何去何從,而我的老師給我說了這話:“這是一個50歲的人給你的建議”他當時50歲
He said, "Identify the things that you can do. And then out of those, identify the things that you want to do. And list them down. Make a list- long or short, whatever it is. Now out of the things you want to do, identify those things that you really want to do. And then look at them, and out of those things, identify those that you really really want to do and then do them."
他說“找出你能做的事,然后再從中找出你想做的事,把它們一一寫下來,寫張清單,長短都無所謂。接著從你想做的事中找出你最想做的事,看著這些,從中找出你最最想做的事,然后就做那些事”

One of the best advices that I got. Very simple. But so important. Again it's to take time aside and to think about those things.
那是我得到過的最好的建議。非常簡單,但非常重要。這需要花點時間,認真想想這些事
So what are my self-concordant goals? What is the interest of me? What is valuable to me? What am I passionate about? What do I want to rather than feel that I have to do?
那我的自我和諧目標是什么呢?我的興趣是什么?什么對我最具價值?我對什么有激情?我想做什么,而不是我得做什么
And sometimes the answers are not easy answers. Sometimes the answers are not answers that I want to hear. And the implications, the ? that are following that path may not be as pleasant initially, because it made me going against the grain.
有時答案并不簡單,有時答案并不中聽。而其中的含義…接下來的路可能沒有最初的好走,因為它越來越崎嶇不平
It made me doing something that yields difficulties from other people or from the environment. It may not be the most popular choice.
它讓我去做一些困難的事情、別人或環境所造成的困難,可能不是最受歡迎的選擇