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How come they end up in a rehab center? How come they are unhappy? Here's the how come.
為什么他們最后還要進心理治療中心？為什么會不開心？現在就來說說原因
You see, for years, when they climb up the ranks, when they have the dream of becoming a famous person, a person who is admired, revered, a person who can get anything or anyone almost they want, when they dream about it, they may be unhappy.
多年來，他們不斷努力向上，他們心懷夢想，希望成為名人，渴望得到別人的尊敬，渴望得到一切想要的東西或人。當他們夢想這些的時候，他們可能是不開心
But they say to themselves, "OK. I'm unhappy now, but I'll be happy when I get there." And then they get there. And they realize that there's no "there" there. They think it would make them happy, but it doesn't.
但他們對自己說“好吧，我現在不開心，但我成功后會很開心”。然后他們成功了。他們意識到并沒有料想中的開心，他們以為那會讓他們開心，但沒有
And that's when the real problems begin. Because that's when they begin to experience helplessness. That's when they become resigned. That's when they go into- on the Hamburger model, that's when they go into the learned helplessness and resignation and the nihilism.
那時真正的問題才到來，因為到那時他們才開始體會到無助，那時他們就會放棄，那時他們就變得……根據漢布格爾的模型，他們會患上習得性無助，自我放棄和懷疑主義
Because everyone has told them that once they make it then they'll be happy. And they told themselves, "once I make it then I'll be happy". And they are not any happier for it.
因為大家都跟他們說，他們實現了這事就會快樂，而他們也對自己說過“一實現了這事，就會快樂”，但他們并不為此而更快樂
Yeah, initially when the fame begins, and when they start having things in their way as they always dream, of course they are happier. But then they go back to their base level.
一開始，當剛開始有點名氣，他們剛開始走上成功之路，他們常常夢想成功，當然就會快樂一點。但之后他們又回到基礎水平
And when they go to their base level, they are suppressed, they are upset, they are disappointed, and more than anything, they are scared.
當回到基礎水平，他們很壓抑，很沮喪，失望，更甚的是，他們很害怕
