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If I'm a merit finder, I would look the exact same experiences and interpret them very differently.
如果我是個積極者，對相同的經(jīng)歷就會有非常不同的詮釋
Because I have very different neural pathways in the brain. Of course, there are consequences to how we interpret our experiences.
因為我大腦中的神經(jīng)通路就非常不同。當(dāng)然了，我們?nèi)绾卧忈尳?jīng)歷是有不同結(jié)果的
Not necessarily that things happen for the best, but as a merit, as a benefit finder, sorry, I change that.
不一定會有最好的結(jié)果，但作為積極者，抱歉我換了個說法
As a benefit finder, looking more at the, at the positive with each experience.
作為積極者，更能看到每段人生經(jīng)歷中積極的方面
Now remember the study on the identical twins and how much genes actually matter. That only account for 55% of the variance.
回憶一下同卵雙胞胎的研究以及其中基因到底有多大影響。那只能解釋55%的差異
So here is the story that's told in many intro to psych textbooks
這是很多心理學(xué)入門教材中會提到的故事
And it's about twins who were raised in a same home and their father was abusive toward them, toward their mother.
是關(guān)于雙胞胎，在同個家庭中長大，他們的父親對他們及其妻子都很暴力
He was very often drunk, very often on drugs, and really an awful, awful childhood, the worst you can imagine.
他經(jīng)常酗酒，吸毒，非常非?？膳碌耐?，所能想到的最悲慘的童年
And these twins grow up in that home with that father.
這對雙胞胎與父親一起在這個家庭中長大
And they go off. They leave their home, run away from home later on in life and they reach the age of 30.
然后他們離開了，離開家，從這個家里逃出去，然后到了三十歲
And then at the age of 30, a psychologist who is doing research on twins goes and visits them. And he goes to the first twin.
在他們?nèi)畾q時，一個正在對雙胞胎進行研究的心理學(xué)家拜訪了他們。他先去找了雙胞胎里的第一個
And what he sees there: the twin is in a relationship. He's abusing his family, very often drunk, very often on drugs.
他看到的是，這個孩子結(jié)婚了。虐待家人，經(jīng)常酗酒，吸毒
