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Blue Bloods' Bridget Moynahan: Standing Strong
《警察世家》的布麗姬特·莫娜漢：頑強(qiáng)屹立
In a new book (about shoes!), the actress reflects on how she survived the painful public scrutiny on her breakup with Tom Brady
在一本新書(關(guān)于鞋子!)中，這位女演員講述了她如何在與湯姆·布拉迪(Tom Brady)分手后經(jīng)受住公眾痛苦的審視
Bridget Moynahan wasn't making much progress. She'd set out to cull her shoe closet but instead found herself keeping every pair of pumps, boots and sandals she saw.
布里奇特·莫納漢沒有取得多大進(jìn)展。她本來打算把鞋柜里的鞋子都清理掉，結(jié)果卻發(fā)現(xiàn)自己把看到的每一雙平底鞋、靴子和涼鞋都留著。
"I couldn't even part with things I was never using," she says, sitting down to breakfast in New York City. "They all had a memory attached."
“我甚至不能放棄我從未使用過的東西，”她說，在紐約坐下來吃早餐。“他們都有自己的記憶。”
That realization sparked the idea for the Blue Bloods actress's newest project, Our Shoes, Our Selves, a collection of 40 essays by women from Padma Laksh-mi to Katie Couric on the memories associated with their favorite footwear.
這一認(rèn)識(shí)激發(fā)了這位《警察世家》(Blue blood)女演員的最新作品《我們的鞋子，我們的自我》(Our Shoes, Our Selves)的靈感。這本書收錄了從帕德瑪?拉克什-米(Padma Laksh-mi)到凱蒂·庫(kù)里克(Katie Couric)等40篇文章，都是關(guān)于她們喜愛的鞋子有關(guān)的記憶。
"Women wrote about the heels that made them feel sexy or combat boots that had jumped out of airplanes," Moynahan says of the book, written with Amanda Benchley.
莫納漢在談到這本與阿曼達(dá)·本奇利合著的書時(shí)說：“她們寫的是讓她們覺得性感的高跟鞋，或者是從飛機(jī)上跳下來的戰(zhàn)斗靴。”
(Part of the proceeds will go to the charity Girls Inc.) "But they all represented a moment that affected them and put them on another path."
(部分收益將捐給慈善機(jī)構(gòu)Girls Inc.)。“但它們都代表了一個(gè)影響她們的時(shí)刻，讓她們走上了另一條道路。”
The book also launched a journey of self-reflection for Moynahan, 47, who shares a deeply personal essay in the anthology about the most vulnerable time in her life.
這本書還為47歲的莫娜漢開啟了一段自我反思之旅。莫伊納漢在這本文集中分享了一篇關(guān)于她人生中最脆弱時(shí)期的深刻的個(gè)人文章。
It was 2007, and Moynahan, then 36, was expecting a baby with her ex-boyfriend, New England Patriots quarterback Tom Brady, after he had already moved on with supermodel Gisele Bündchen.
那是2007年，莫娜漢的前男友新英格蘭愛國(guó)者隊(duì)四分衛(wèi)湯布雷迪(Tom Brady)在和超模吉賽爾邦辰(Gisele Bundchen)分手后，36歲的莫娜漢和他有了孩子。
The firestorm of controversy that ensued meant that the actress, then best known for roles in I, Robot, Coyote Ugly and Sex and the City, was suddenly a tabloid fixture.
隨之而來的爭(zhēng)議風(fēng)暴意味著，這位女演員突然成了小報(bào)關(guān)注的焦點(diǎn)。她在《我，機(jī)器人》(I, Robot)、《女狼俱樂部》(Coyote Ugly)和《欲望都市》(Sex and The City)中飾演的角色最為人所知。
"Being pregnant and having a baby are such personal, intimate moments," she says.
她說:“懷孕和生孩子是如此私人、親密的時(shí)刻。”
As she faced an unexpected life as a single mom to Jack, now 11, and navigated the relationship with Brady and Bundchen, Moynahan says the public scrutiny became too much.
莫娜漢說，作為11歲的杰克的單身母親，她面臨著意想不到的生活，進(jìn)入了布雷迪和邦辰的關(guān)系。莫納漢說，公眾的監(jiān)督有點(diǎn)過分了。
"I would have cars following me and men hiding in the bushes," she says. "As a new mother you want to just protect your child. That kind of attention felt like a threat."
“會(huì)有汽車跟在我后面，有男人躲在灌木叢里，”她說。“作為一個(gè)新媽媽，你只想保護(hù)你的孩子。那種關(guān)注感覺像是一種威脅。”
Then one day at Barneys—where she was hiding from photographers who had followed her—she spotted a pair of motorcycle boots.
后來有一天，她躲在巴尼斯躲避跟蹤她的攝影師，發(fā)現(xiàn)了一雙摩托車靴。
"I thought, That's what I need. Let me get a little bit of my 'New York' back, a little armor," says Moynahan.
“我想，這就是我所需要的。讓我有點(diǎn)紐約的感覺，有點(diǎn)盔甲的感覺。”莫娜漢說。
"I think a lot of women can relate to finding themselves in a life moment that has taken a bit of their joie de vivre out of them and then having that moment to reclaim it."
“我想很多女性都能體會(huì)到，當(dāng)生活中的某個(gè)時(shí)刻奪走了她們的一點(diǎn)生活樂趣，又在這個(gè)時(shí)刻重新找回它。”
Though Moynahan is open about the frustration of seeing her personal life publicized ("A lot of it's not true, and that's hard!" she says), she's grateful that she's been able to give her son a safe and private life, along with her husband of three years, businessman Andrew Frankel, who is also father to three boys from a previous relationship.
雖然莫娜漢坦誠(chéng)分享了她的個(gè)人生活的挫折（“這不是真的，這很困難!”她說）,她感激她能給她兒子安全私密的生活，還有共同生活了三年的丈夫，商人安德魯·弗蘭克爾，他之前有三個(gè)孩子。
Today she feels lucky she and Brady have been able to co-parent successfully.
今天，她感到幸運(yùn)的是，她和布雷迪能夠成功地共同撫養(yǎng)孩子。
"Tom and I made a decision to raise a child together, and we both found partners that not only supported us in raising that child but also loved our child as if he was their own," she says.
她說：“湯姆和我決定一起撫養(yǎng)一個(gè)孩子，我們都找到了合作者，他們不僅支持我們撫養(yǎng)這個(gè)孩子，而且像愛自己的孩子一樣愛我們的孩子。”
"I don't think you can ask for more than that. My son is surrounded by love."
“我覺得你不能要求更多。我的兒子被愛包圍著。”
