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And, coupled with that, I hope that when you fail, you will also learn to interpret it in a different way than most of us usually interpret failure.
另外，我希望當你們失敗時，你們也能學習用不同的方式去詮釋，而不像大多數人那樣詮釋失敗
'Cause there is no other way to succeed, there is no other way for growth, it's an elusion that a life looks like this,
因為沒有別的方式取得成功，成長的途徑只有這一條，像這樣的生活，只是在逃避
we will talk about it much more when we talk about perfectionism.
當我們談論完美主義時，我們會繼續談這個
A healthy life, a real life, and a happy life ultimately looks like this, a spiral with ups and downs, not as a straight line.
健康的生活，真實的生活，快樂的生活基本都看起來像這樣，一個帶起伏的螺旋，不是一條直線
When we see ourselves cope, when we see ourselves work hard, we derive conclusions about ourselves,
當我們看到自己去面對，努力奮斗時，我們對自己做出結論
our self confidence goes up, our motivation goes up, our belief goes up and so on and so on in an upward spiral of growth.
我們的自信增長，我們的動力增加，我們的信仰上升，等等，以一個上升螺旋的趨勢發展
Soren Kierkegaard: "To dare is to lose one's footing momentarily.
索倫·克爾凱郭爾說過："勇于冒險或許會一時失足
Not to dare is to lose oneself."
卻步不前則會迷失自我”
To lose one's footing temporarily is the failure that comes inevitably when we cope, when we try,
當我們去面對，去嘗試，滿懷期望時，一時失足而導致失敗
when we have high expectations. Not to dare is to lose oneself, that is when we don't cope, when we avoid.
不可避免，而我們不去應對，選擇逃避，卻步不前則會迷失自我
Because this model also works the other way around.
因為這個模型倒過來也成立
When we constantly avoid challenges, when we constantly shone difficult experiences, when we don't give ourselves the permission to fail,
當我們不斷地逃避挑戰，當我們總能處理好困難經歷
a downward spiral is created, in terms of our self esteem, in terms of our success, in terms of our well being.
當我們不允許自己失敗時，會形成一個向下的螺旋，影響自尊，我們的成功和幸福
