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Randall2319 asks...
Randall2319問道：
"I have so much anxiety about dating. How do I get over it and have fun?"
“我對約會一事有很多擔心。我怎么能克服并度過快樂時光？”
That's a really good question.
這是一個非常好的問題。
You gotta stop thinking. It's all in your head.
你不應該再想了。那都是你的胡思亂想。
Think of it as going to have fun with a friend.
就想成是和朋友開心地一起玩就可以了。
Think about all the good things that could happen. Don't think about the bad things.
想想馬上要發生的那些好事。不要去想那些不好的事。
Go for it. I mean, if you really like that person, I feel like it should be fun for you, and you shouldn't be anxious.
努力去做。如果你很喜歡那個人，我想你會過得開心的，而不應該擔心。
Concentrate on having fun and not worrying about nervousness, anxiety. Just shake it loose and go for it and have fun.
專心去享受，不要擔心緊張和焦慮。放輕松，去享受，痛快地玩。
Have a guys' night out every once in a while so you can do whatever you want-(mutters) laser tag — and still have fun while not having to worry about girls.
每隔一段時間去享受一次男人之夜，你可以想做什么就做什么，（含糊地說），可以玩激光槍戰，可以玩得很開心，又不用擔心女孩的問題。
Realize that the right person is gonna love you for who you are. So don't worry so much about what they think and just be yourself, you know? Just have a good time.
你要知道，無論你是怎樣的人，那個對的人都會愛你。不要對他們的想法擔心那么多，做你自己就好，知道嗎？盡情享受快樂時光吧。
Girls are just as anxious about it as guys are. Like, trust me. They really are. Just approach them, be yourself. Be friendly.
女孩們和男生一樣擔心。相信我。女孩們也很擔心?？拷齻儯瞿阕约壕秃谩Ｒ押靡恍?/div>
Calm down. Get clear. Picture that person in his or her underwear. Maybe that's not the best advice that a mom could give a kid.
平靜下來。想清楚。想象一下那個人穿內衣的樣子。也許那并不是母親可以給孩子的最好建議。
Don't think about it. Just think about it as like you're friends and you're just gonna go out and have fun, you know? 'Cause it's like a first-date kinda dealio or whatever. And just don't think about, "Oh, does she like me? Oh my god, does she like me? Oh my god, oh my god. What if we get married and have kids and live in a white house with a picket fence?"
不要去想那些。就當你們是朋友，你們要一起出去玩，只要開心地玩就好，知道嗎？因為那就像第一次約會之類的。你不能這樣想：“哦，她喜歡我嗎？哦我的天哪，她喜歡我嗎？哦我的天哪，我的天哪。如果我們結婚生孩子，住在有木柵欄的白色房子里會怎樣？”
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