評論
打印
Nuebish wants to know...
Nuebish想知道：
"How do I forget somebody who really hurt me but still care about?"
“我怎么能忘了傷我很深卻仍讓我很在乎的人？”
All right, nuebish, this is a tough one.
nuebish，這很難。
Stop thinking about them.
不要再想那些人了。
Think about someone else.
想想其他人。
Don't think about that person. Don't talk to that person.
不要再想那個人了。不要再和那個人說話了。
Try to find some positive people in your life and hang out with them more.
試圖在生活中找到樂觀積極的人，多和那些人相處。
If it's your girlfriend, if she hurt you...move on!
如果那是你的女朋友，如果她傷害了你，那就繼續過自己的生活！
If it's a relationship matter, then find someone else. If it's not, then just don't think about them. Think that, "No, they hurt me. I do not care about them anymore."
如果是戀愛關系，那你要去找更好的人。如果不是戀愛關系，那就不要去想他們了。你可以這樣想：“他們傷害了我。我再也不在乎他們了。”
It's time to think positive and move on and look for somebody who's not gonna hurt you.
現在是時候開始積極的思考了，向前看，去找不會傷害你的人。
You don't necessarily have to completely forget about them. I just think that it's important to maybe give them some space.
你不必完全忘掉他們。我認為重要的是給他們一些空間。
If they meant that much to you you won't forget them, the best you can do is try and figure out the lessons you learned from being with that person, and you know, take it from there. Turn it into a positive.
如果他們對你如此重要，你忘不了他們，那你所能做的最好選擇就是從和那個人相處中吸取教訓，從中做出決斷。將它變成積極的事情。
Forgiveness is the only way, dude.
伙計，原諒是唯一的方法。
Forgiving that person is a good way to move on with yourself emotionally, and then you just kinda forget as time just goes on.
原諒那個人是整理自己感情的最好方法，隨著時間的推移，你會忘掉的。
If you don't talk about it and discuss between you and your friend who you care about, I think that will be carried on for the rest of your life. Talk about it right away and get that resolved.
如果你不去談論這件事，不去和你在乎的那個朋友說清楚，我想你的余生都會一直想著這件事。現在馬上就去和那個人談談，解決這個問題。
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