That focuses on the average? What's the average relationship in human history?
并求平均值嗎?人類史上的普通戀愛關(guān)系是指什么?
The average relationship in human history is one in which the woman is subjugated.
人類史上的普通戀愛關(guān)系其一是女人是被壓制的一方
That's the average relationship in human history. Now what if we just study that?
這就是人類史上的普通戀愛關(guān)系如果我們只研究這種戀愛關(guān)系呢?
Would that be helpful? No, it was when people like John Stuart Mill,
是否有幫助?不 John Stuart Mill這樣的人
Who studied his relationships which was at the time extraordinary,
研究了他自身的戀愛關(guān)系這在當(dāng)時是極不尋常的
Realized the potential of what all relationships can be that he wrote his book on subjugation of women,
研究過后他發(fā)現(xiàn)戀愛關(guān)系能改變他這本書是以女性主導(dǎo)地位為題的
One of the most important books of the 19th century that has led to the feminist movement
這本書是19世紀(jì)最重要的書之一是女權(quán)運動和平等運動的
And to the equality movement. What if he only studies the average?
導(dǎo)火線如果他只研究普通的戀愛關(guān)系呢?
Would that help relationships? Not at all.
那樣對人際關(guān)系有幫助嗎?完全沒有
How about teaching? What do you want to do in order to learn about teaching
那教學(xué)呢?要了解如何教學(xué) 你想怎樣做?
Go and study the average teachers or go and study Marva Collins and then apply what Marva Collins does to all teachers?
研究平均水平的教師還是研究Marva Collins然后將Marva Collins的經(jīng)驗應(yīng)用到所有老師身上?
Everyone benefits when we focus on the tip of stamen this is why Maslow said human nature
當(dāng)著眼于研究最優(yōu)秀的人體時 每個人都得益這就是為什么Maslow說人性
And human potential has been sold short, when we only study the average.
和人的潛能會被削弱如果我們只研究平均水平的話
It's also about studying our personal best, not just other people's best,
同樣涉及到研究我們個人的最大長處而不僅是研究其他人的最大長處