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Tristen Fearse asks:
特里斯滕·菲爾斯問道：
"My best friend is my roommate and we don't live well together. She's driving me nuts! What do I do?"
“我最好的朋友是我的室友，可是我們在一起住的不太好。她快把我逼瘋了。我該怎么辦？”
(exhales) That's a toughy.
（呼氣）這很難辦。
Just deal with it.
面對這個(gè)問題。
Straight up tell your friend you don't want to be her roommate anymore.
直接告訴你的朋友你不想再和她住在一起了。
Cut your budget, save your money, be an independent woman, get your own place.
縮減預(yù)算，存錢，成為獨(dú)立的女性，然后找個(gè)地方搬家。
Man, if it's not working out, then you guys gotta split up if you want to save that relationship.
如果你們不能住在一起，你想挽救你們之間的關(guān)系的話，你們就要分開住了。
Be like, "Yo, I mean, I still wanna be best friends. I think we should see other people."
跟她說：“我們還是最好的朋友。可是我想我們應(yīng)該分開住。”
The best thing to do is get a new roommate. Just explain to her that things are not working out.
最好的方法是找個(gè)新室友。和她解釋清楚，你們不適合住在一起。
Tell her. Like, she's your best friend. She shouldn't really get hurt about that.
告訴她。她是你最好的朋友。她不應(yīng)該因此而受傷。
Talk to her about it and be honest. She will understand you.
誠實(shí)地和她談?wù)劇Ｋ龝?huì)理解你的。
Sit down and have a heart-to-heart with your roommate and figure out what's going on.
坐下來，和你的室友敞開心扉地談?wù)劊页鼋鉀Q方法。
Try to rule out what's annoying you and what's not and if she really is your best friend she'll try to make changes, but you have to be willing to make some changes as well because there's probably things you do that bother her.
列出讓你討厭的行為和可以接受的行為，如果她真的是你最好的朋友，她會(huì)嘗試做出改變，但是你也要做出一些改變，因?yàn)榭赡苣阋灿行┬袨槭撬荒苋淌艿摹?/div>
Write down on a piece of paper all the things that you guys are having disagreements on and give it to her and say, "Hey, I was hoping maybe we could work on that."
把你們兩個(gè)有不同意見的事情寫在一張紙上，把紙拿給她看，跟她說：“嘿，我希望我們可以這樣做。”
You guys just need to talk to each other. Talk it out and figure out what to do. Maybe you guys need some time away from each other for a little bit, and then you can come back together and be stronger than ever.
你們需要好好談?wù)劇０涯阆胝f的話說出來，看看要怎么解決。也許你們需要分開一段時(shí)間，然后再見面時(shí)，你們的關(guān)系會(huì)更加牢固。
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