Love Guide
愛情指南
Are you really in love? Being in love is a powerful feeling. The emotions are intense.
你確實在戀愛嗎?墮入愛河是一種轟轟烈烈的感情。情感是激烈的。
It is so exciting that it may be hard to concentrate on school, work, or family responsibilities.
愛情在激蕩,使人無法專心學習、工作或專注于家庭責任。
Sometimes people confuse real love with the possessive love seen on TV or in the movies.
有時,人們錯把真正的愛情與電視或電影上看到的獨占的愛混為一談。
They believe that love is only love at first sight. But real, mature love takes time to develop.
他們以為一見鐘情才叫愛。然而,真正的、成熟的愛是要花時間來培養的。
Many teens believe they are in love. They may be in love in an immature way.
許多青少年以為他們戀愛了。那可能是不成熟的愛。
Sometimes teens or adults in love give up all their friends. They stop doing activities they enjoy.
有時,戀愛中的青少年或者成年人放棄了所有的培養。他們也不再做喜歡做的事。
Some have jealous partners that never let them be alone or with another person.
有些人的戀人愛吃醋,不讓他們獨處,也不允許他們跟別人在一起。
They are jealous any time their loved one talks to another person.
一旦看到所愛的人跟他人講話,愛吃醋的戀人便醋意大發。
Others are forced to do things they do not want to do. There is a saying that "love is blind."
而另外一些人則被迫做一些他們本不想做的事情。俗語說,愛是盲目的。
What we think is love may distort our ability to see the real relationship.
被我們當成愛的東西可能會妨礙我們看到我們戀愛關系的本質。
Mature love lets you be you. People in mature love have common interests, and are honest with each other.
成熟的愛讓你做你自己。經歷成熟愛情的人們有共同的興趣,并終于彼此。
People who share mature love do not see the other person as the solution to their problems.
共享成熟之愛的人不把對方當成問題的解決辦法。
They see the other person as a wonderful gift. They spend time with each other's families and friends.
而是看成一件奇妙的禮物。他們花時間與對方的家人和培養在一起。
Mature love relationships do not cause people to give up their values.
成熟的戀愛關系不會使人放棄自己的價值觀。