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This kind of love rarely develops in the teen years.
這種愛很少產(chǎn)生于青少年時(shí)期。
Tired of chasing love? Remember, the secret to finding true romance is not trying so hard.
難道厭倦了去追逐愛情？記住，找到真愛的秘訣是很努力地嘗試。
Internet dating, singles clubs and personal ads are popular.
網(wǎng)絡(luò)約會，單身俱樂部和個(gè)人廣告是很受歡迎的。
However, seeking love can set us up for disappointment.
但是，尋求真愛可能會另我們失望。
More rewarding is to focus on self-improvement, abandoning chase and attracting love into your life.
更多的收獲是自我提高，放棄追逐，并且吸引理想的愛情進(jìn)入你的生活。
Here's how to start: Live in the present.
首先要做到的是：活在當(dāng)下。
Let go of the thought that everything would be better if only you had someone to share it with.
不要認(rèn)為事情只有和他人分享才能更好的發(fā)展。
When you meet someone, don't get fixed on possible outcomes.
當(dāng)你遇見某人時(shí)，不要確定可能的結(jié)果。
Be truly selfish. Know what you want in a partner and say so.
為自己著想。清楚自己想要一個(gè)怎么的伙伴，并且會說不。
Be self-sufficient. It's not an admission of weakness to have needs and desires—we all have them and deserve to satisfy them.
實(shí)現(xiàn)自給自足。有需求和欲望不是承認(rèn)弱點(diǎn)——我們都有這些，也應(yīng)該讓自己得到滿足。
Meet them yourself in positive ways so you won't get yourself to "use" or scare off would-be partners.
采取積極的方式實(shí)現(xiàn)自給自足，這樣你不會利用或者嚇跑可能的伴侶。
Concerned about dating? Because dating can be distracting and time-consuming, many teens put off dating so they can focus on school, music, sports, or other interests.
還在擔(dān)心約會嗎？約會可能會讓你分心并且費(fèi)時(shí)，許多青少年推遲約會，這樣他們才能集中精神上學(xué)，音樂，體育，或者其他興趣愛好上。
Group dates allow young teens to interact with the opposite sex in a safe environment.
小組約會能夠讓青少年在一個(gè)安全的環(huán)境中和異性互動。
Being with different people lets the teen learn more about the kind of person they enjoy.
和不同的人在一起，可以讓青少年明白自己喜歡和什么樣的人待在一起。
