We have been conditioned to believe that IQ is the best measure of human potential.
我們總認為IQ是衡量個人潛力的最佳方式。
In the past 10 years, however, researchers have found that this isn't necessarily the case -
在過去十年里,研究者發現,事實并非如此。
that in fact, your emotional intelligence quotient (EQ) might be a greater predictor of success.
實際上,情感智能商數(即情商)對成功與否更為重要。
We learned to feel before we learned to think. The strong physical reactions we have when we feel anger, happiness, love, surprise, disgust and sadness, for example,
我們先有感覺才有思想。例如,我們感到憤怒,幸福,愛,驚訝,厭惡和悲傷時會有強烈的肢體反應,
illustrate the idea that emotions went before intelligence.
這就證實了情感比大腦活動來的更快。
IQ is essential for learning and mental development. EQ is a person's ability to understand his or her own emotions and the emotions of others
智商對于學習和智力發展尤為重要。情商是人們了解自身和他人情感,
and to act appropriately based on this understanding, and it is more important for happiness and success.
并據此來調整自己行為的能力。情商對獲得幸福和成功更為重要。
We have all known people who did not complete college, but who have become very successful in business.
我們都聽說過那些并未完成大學教育卻能縱橫商場的成功人士的故事。
We call them street smart. We also know people who, on the whole, are positive, communicative, pleasant and supportive -- these people enjoy a high level of EQ.
人們稱這類人為“街頭人才”。我們還聽說過那些積極向上,擅長交際,令人愉悅和樂于助人的人,這些人所共有的特點就是情商高。
The vast majority of one's ultimate success in society is determined by non-IQ factors, ranging from social class to luck.
個人在社會中取得的最終成功很大程度上取決于非智商因素,這些包括從社會階層到運氣因素等等。
Emotional intelligence is one of those factors. The good thing about EQ is that it can always, at any age, be improved, unlike IQ,
情商就是這些因素之一。不像在成年階段就定型的智商,人們的情商在任何年齡都取得進步,
which remains more or less fixed in adult life. It's important to --
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