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So, what is it like to be married? You haven't talked much about that.
那，結(jié)婚的感覺怎樣？你還沒怎么說呢。
I haven't? How weird. I don't know. We met, you know, when I was in college.
我沒有嗎？真奇怪。我不知道怎么說。我們是在上大學(xué)的時(shí)候認(rèn)識(shí)的。
And we broke up and got back together for a period of years, and then...
然后有幾年，我們分分合合，然后...
What? We were sort of back together and she was pregnant...So marriage.
怎么著來著？我們好像又在一起了，然后她就懷孕了...所以就結(jié)婚了。
What is she like?
她怎么樣？
She's a great teacher, a good mom. She's smart, pretty, you know.
她是個(gè)好老師，好媽媽。她很聰明，很漂亮。
I remember thinking at the time that so many of the men that I admired most, you know, that their lives were dedicated to something greater than themselves.
我記得那時(shí)我想，很多我所崇拜的人，他們的生命都奉獻(xiàn)給了比自己更重要的東西。
So you got married because men you admired were married?
所以你結(jié)婚是因?yàn)槟愠绨莸娜硕冀Y(jié)婚了？
No, no...It's more like I had this...this idea of my best self, you know?
不，不... 這更像是說... 我內(nèi)心中有種對完美自我的期許。你懂嗎？
And I wanted to pursue that, even if it might have been overriding my honest self. You know what I'm saying?
我想去追求那個(gè)完美自我，即使它可能已經(jīng)凌駕于本真的自我了。你懂我的意思嗎？
I mean, it's funny like...in the moment, I remember thinking it didn't much matter, the" Who " of it all.
說起來很可笑...我記得在那個(gè)時(shí)候，我覺得和“誰”結(jié)婚并不重要。
I mean, that nobody is gonna be everything to you,
沒有人是你生命的全部。
And that ultimately, it's just a simple action of committing yourself, you know, meeting your responsibilities, that matters.
最終，婚姻僅是一種對他人的承諾的行為，就是說，負(fù)擔(dān)起你的責(zé)任來，這才是最重要的。
I mean, what is love, right, if it's not respect, trust, admiration? And l...I felt all those things.
我是說，愛是什么，不就是尊敬，信賴和欽佩的嘛？而這些我當(dāng)時(shí)都感覺到了啊。
So cut to the present tense, and I feel like I'm running a nursery with somebody I used to date, you know.
而回到現(xiàn)在，我感覺我好像在辦一個(gè)托兒所，跟一個(gè)我曾經(jīng)約會(huì)過的人。
I mean, I'm like a monk, you know. I mean, I've had sex less than 10 times in the last four years.
我就像一個(gè)修道士。我在過去的4年中，做愛還不到10次。
What, what? You laughing at me? -No. -lt sounds pathetic?
干嘛，干嘛？你笑我？-沒有。-聽起來很可悲嗎？
What monastery you know do monks have sex 10 times? -Okay, all right, you're right. I'm doing better than most monks, all right?
你見過那個(gè)修道院里的修道士能做愛，還能做十次？-好吧，你是對的。我比一般的修道士強(qiáng)，可以了吧？
But I do, I feel like if somebody were to touch me, you know, I would dissolve into molecules.
但是我的確覺得，如果現(xiàn)在有人碰我的話我就會(huì)馬上融化的。
Well, we're here. We've gotta go. Come on.
好啦，我們到了。該走了，快。
Shit.
該死。
