By loving the person you are, you accept your humanity which is made up of inadequacies and accomplishments. The pressure is off then! The person you seek will not have the burden of “fixing” you because you’ve accepted yourself wholly. Having that comfort allows you to be open and accepting of others, and the exchange of emotions can begin.
愛自己,意味著接受你的人性是欠缺和成就并存的。這樣壓力就沒了!你尋找的人不會為了要“拯救”你而心存負擔,因為你已經(jīng)全盤接受了自己。有了那種安慰,你就能放開和接受他人,然后情感交流就可以開始了。