Preparing yourself mentally and emotionally by taking care of yourself will help you sort through the “love fog” after it lifts and you can then enjoy the benefits of a mutually fulfilling relationship. Those who have celebrated countless happy anniversaries give common advice–true love begins after the initial chemistry has ended. Take the time to learn how your particular chemistry is best kept alive.
照顧好自己,以在心理和情感上做好準備。這會在“愛的迷霧”散開后幫你整理好自己,然后你就能享受一段相互成就的情感帶來的益處。那些慶祝過無數次幸福紀念日的人們給出了共同的建議——最初的化學反應結束后,真愛就開始了。花些時間去學習怎樣將屬于你的化學反應保存得最好。