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8. Don’t put others before yourself
不要總優(yōu)先滿足他人的需要
When you’re older and in a committed relationship or marriage, there will be times when you need to put your own wants on the back burner and let your spouse reach some of their personal goals. It’s ok to put others before yourself if you’re being supportive and not letting your own needs and wants fall to the wayside, but it shouldn’t become a habit.
當(dāng)你成長了、結(jié)婚了，有時候你需要把自己的需求放在一邊，讓你的另一半實現(xiàn)他/她的目標(biāo)。如果你有足夠的支持，也不會讓自己的需求丟在一旁，優(yōu)先考慮他人是可以的，但這不應(yīng)該成為一種習(xí)慣。
If you’re in a relationship where your partner constantly needs to be the center of attention and won’t let you have interests of your own or time to yourself, you need to get out of that. Realize that it’s not only acceptable to put yourself first, but it’s necessary when you’re young and still have so much growing and learning to do.
如果在你的戀愛關(guān)系中，你的另一半總是想成為關(guān)注的焦點，而不能讓你擁有自己的興趣或者時間，你就應(yīng)該結(jié)束這段關(guān)系。要明白，優(yōu)先為自己考慮不僅可以接受，而且在年輕的時候是必須的，因為你還有很多成長空間，還可以學(xué)會很多。
