3. You can be single
你可以單身
And you should be! Too many young people think they always need to be in a relationship. If you have this mindset, then you’re more likely to date people who are bad for you just so you’ll be with someone. It’s ok to be single! No one is watching you and keeping track of how long you’re single versus how long you’re in a relationship.
而且你應該單身!很多年輕人認為他們需要戀愛,如果你有這種心態,你很有可能為了找個伴而和不合適的人約會。單身沒什么不可以!沒有人會盯著你,記錄你單身的時間和戀愛的時間哪個更長。
It’s important to be single so you can focus on your own life; when you do find that special someone, your relationship will be that much better because it will be special. You’ll be a well-rounded person, and you won’t have a history of hopping from relationship to relationship with no substance.
單身也是重要的,這樣你就可以專注于自己的生活。當你真的找到那個特別的人時,你們的關系會更好,因為它會很特別。你會非常圓滿,而且你不會留下一段毫無意義不斷更換戀愛對象的歷史。