2. You can be selfish
你可以自私
It’s normal to be selfish when you’re young, because you need to figure out who you are and what you want from life. It’s acceptable to break up with someone over something that might seem a bit petty just because they don’t seem right for you – because they probably aren’t!
年輕的時候自私是正常的,因為你需要發現你是誰,你想要從生活中得到什么。和某些人因為某些瑣事分手只是因為他們似乎不適合你,這也是可以接受的,因為他們也許真的不適合你。
When you’re in your teens and twenties, you need to focus on yourself, because you need to discover who you are and what your career will be. You need to work on things like this, including loving yourself, before you try to make a partnership work for the long haul.
年輕的時候,你需要專注于自身,因為你需要探尋你是誰,你的職業生涯會怎樣發展。你需要為這些事情而忙碌,包括在發展一段長期的關系之前先愛自己。