6. Live and love in the moment
活在當下,愛在此刻
Never chastise yourself for falling in love. When you feel something in the moment, you need to let yourself feel that emotion completely. Fall in love, daydream about your future, and, as hard as it may be to do, let yourself get hurt. You’ll learn from all of these moments and all of these emotions.
永遠不要因為戀愛而懲罰自己。此刻當你有所感覺,你需要讓自己完全投入去感受這種情感。陷入愛河,幻想未來,也許還會讓自己受傷。你會從所有這些時刻和情感中學會很多。
It seems like you’d look back and kick yourself for having a crush on someone who was so obviously wrong for you, but you’ll see the past through rose-colored glasses and be glad that you experienced as much as you did.
也許當你回頭看,會責備自己怎么會愛上一個明顯是錯的人,但這段過去依然帶著浪漫的玫瑰色彩,你會很欣慰自己曾經盡力去體驗。