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4. You’ll fall in love with the wrong person
你會(huì)愛上錯(cuò)的人
This is the hardest lesson to learn, because people rarely seem wrong for you at the start of a relationship. When you feel the sparks and the butterflies, you can’t imagine that someone could be bad for you. But they can be, and they will be, and you need to learn how to identify this in others
這是最難學(xué)會(huì)的一課，因?yàn)樵趹賽鄣拈_始，人們看起來都沒什么問題。當(dāng)你感覺到火花時(shí)，你無法想象這個(gè)人可能并不適合你。但他們真的可能是錯(cuò)的人，而你需要學(xué)會(huì)如何辨別。
They can be kind and still be wrong — for you. You should be with someone who brings out the best in you, who is sweet and encouraging and compatible with you, not who you think you should be with to make anyone else happy.
他們可以是好人，但對(duì)于你來說，依然是錯(cuò)的人。你應(yīng)該和一個(gè)能讓你自己最好一面顯露出來的人在一起，他/她應(yīng)該非常貼心，善于鼓勵(lì)，和你非常相配。不要為了取悅別人而勉強(qiáng)和誰在一起。
