周圍人的影響。
Maybe you have someone in your life who brings you down, perhaps out of their own insecurities or maybe because they can't adjust to the idea of a different you.
可能你周圍的人是讓你毫無動力的原因,也許是由于他們自身的不安全感,又或者是他們不能接受一個全新的你。
Try to explain your reasons for attempting a change to them and ask for their support.
試著向他們解釋你改變自我的原因,并請求他們的支持。
If they can't come to terms with it, perhaps it's better to keep your distance until they come around.
如果他們不能接受,那你最好在志同道合之前和他們保持距離。