5.SHARE MORE ABOUT YOURSELF

5.更多地展現自己

Kids, at least the very social ones, will often say, "hey look what I can do." Even if all they're doing is sticking out their tongue. And hey, people look. The point is, these kids get noticed. They don't fade into the background. This can be a problem for adults, especially us introverts. We enjoy our privacy more than most. The thing is, just like those outgoing kids, you’ll get noticed and often liked more when you speak up and let others get to know you. The good news is, you don't have to have verbal diarrhea to do this. Just reveal little tidbits about yourself throughout a conversation.

小孩，算得上是很有交際能力的，他們會經常說：“嘿看看我能做什么。”即使他們所做的只是吐吐舌頭。但注意，人們就是會看他們。其關鍵在于，這些小孩得到了注意。而非成為背景。這卻是我們成年人，尤其是內向的成年人的問題。我們現在比以往都要沉浸在自己的世界里。重要的是，學習一下那些外向的小孩吧，大聲地說話讓大家了解你，這樣你就更能夠得到別人的關注和喜愛。值得慶幸的是，你不必像別人大吐特吐你的內心世界，只要在交流中稍稍透露一點真實的你就行了。

When talking about your job, mention how your brother inspired your career moves.

當談論到工作，你就一筆帶過說你的兄弟是怎樣鼓舞你創業的。

Ask what they like to do for fun, then reveal your favorite free-time activities.

問問他們喜歡找什么樣的樂趣，然后再說出你空閑時最喜歡的活動。

Show vulnerability once you get to know each other, like how you try to eat better but keep hitting Dunkin' Donuts.

一旦了解了彼此，就透露一些缺點，比如你想吃得健康營養，卻又不停地吃Dunkin’甜甜圈。