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3.FIGURE OUT YOUR MOST IMPORTANT VALUES
3.認識你最閃光的價值
Another reason kids make friends easily is they have a lot in common. Kids believe:
小孩交友容易的另一個原因就是他們有太多共通點。他們相信：
Playing is important
玩耍很重要
Slides are cool
滑滑板很酷
Candy is good
吃糖是好事
It's not so clear cut with adults is it? We've developed our likes and dislikes over time. But the playground rules still apply: You connect deeply with others by having similar values to them. Now, of course you shouldn't go adopting values and beliefs just to fit in. No, you figure out the things most important to you then express them in your words and actions. Yes, this means you might turn off some people who don't share your values. But you're more likely to connect with those who do.
成年人的喜好就迥然不同了對吧？經過歲月的洗禮我們都會養成喜歡這個或討厭那個的習慣。但操場規則依然生效：通過相同的價值觀，你能跟別人從內心深處去交往。現在，你當然沒必要刻意去迎逢別人的價值觀和信仰。但是，你要認識出對你來說最重要的東西，然后用你的語言和行為表達出來。的確，這樣會將不同價值觀的人拒之門外。但你也更有可能結交志同道合之人。
