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1.LEVERAGE CURRENT SOCIAL ASSETS
1.充分利用現有的社會資源
I remember back in Kindergarten (before I got awkward), I would make friends through other friends. One buddy might have a birthday party where I'd meet other kids. Some would become new friends. It's not quite as easy as an adult, but the same principle applies. First ask yourself, who are you already around on a normal basis? This might include:
我還記得在幼稚園的時候（在交友技巧變拙劣前），我能夠通過別人認識新朋友。某個伙伴開派對，我們就可以在派對上結交其他的小孩。其中一些就會成為朋友。這對成年人來說不怎么容易，但道理都一樣。首先，問問你自己平常都跟誰在一塊？可能包括：
Then, be aware of invites from these “social assets” and say yes to birthday parties, reunions, holiday events, after work drinks, company picnics, etc. At these events, you'll likely meet new people who are friends of friends or family.
然后，要對這些社會資源有所意識，積極對他們的邀請做出回應，像生日派對，聚餐活動，假日活動，下班小酌，公司野餐等等。出席了這些活動，你就可能遇見來自朋友或家人的朋友。
