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2.GO TO INTEREST GROUPS, NOT BARS
2.加入興趣組織，而非酒吧
Some kids are really active going to gymnastics, band, theater and more. Ideally, these are activities the kids enjoy. And there lies the magic. You have a group of kids, all doing something they love, together. That's where the bonding comes. There's seldom any shared activity or interest in a bar. The common thread in bars, if there is any, is people go there to socialize. So, the greatest “socializers” win. If you aren't that comfortable socializing, you strike out. Instead, why not go somewhere you know the people will share your interests? For example, if you're interested in writing, it's a good bet members in a writer's group will be too. So you have an instant connection with them and a built in topic to start conversations.
一些小孩在去練體操，組樂隊，看戲劇......時他們會顯得特別活躍。其實，這些活動都是小孩們真正享受的。妙就妙在這里，一群小孩因為他們共同的愛好而聚在一起。這個共同點將他們連在一起。若在酒吧就不會有這樣的共同興趣活動了。硬要說有的話，那就是人們都是到這里來社交的。所以，肯定是“交際家”取勝。為什么不到一個有共同興趣的地方去呢？如果你喜歡寫作，加入作家協會將是個不錯的選擇。這樣你就可以與他們保持聯系，然后制造一個話題開始討論。
