4.GO TO THE SAME PLACE AT THE SAME TIME
4.固定時間去同一地點
Kids in school see each other every day in the classroom, on the playground, on the bus... It becomes easier to notice, get to know, and eventually like Mary or Jake when you see them so often. For adults, repeat exposure and time spent together still work wonders. Try going to the following on the same days of the week at the same time of day:
學(xué)校里的孩子每天都能夠在教室、操場、巴士上碰面。久而久之這樣就更容易注意對方,了解對方,甚至是喜歡上對方。對于成年人來說,提高見面的頻率和時間,同樣能夠產(chǎn)生如此奇跡。試著在一周的某天或某天的同一時間去固定的地方:
A local coffee shop
當?shù)乜Х鹊?/span>
The gym
體育場
A low-key local pub (not a club or "hoppin" bar)
低調(diào)的當?shù)鼐瓢桑ú皇蔷銟凡炕蚝堋班恕钡木瓢桑?/span>
There may be others who visit at those same times also. Plus, the staff will start to recognize you. Over time, you can get to know them and they’ll become comfortable with you from the mere-exposure effect.
那里可能也會有其他人在這個時間出現(xiàn)。另外,工作人員也會開始注意你。時間久了,你就會了解他們,他們也會因單純曝光效果而跟你熟絡(luò)起來。
vt. 認出,認可,承認,意識到,表示感激