The Competitor
競(jìng)爭(zhēng)者

Some competition can be healthy -- if your friend's goals or achievements serve as motivation for you -- but if the Competitor wants what you have, acts in a hostile way and will do anything not only to get what you have but take it away, this could cost you. If your friend has to get a house that's bigger or more expensive than yours to seem more successful than you, it may be time to dump her.
有些競(jìng)爭(zhēng)是良性的（如果朋友的目標(biāo)或者成就，能成為你的動(dòng)力），但是，如果競(jìng)爭(zhēng)者想得到你所擁有的東西，以一種敵意的方式行事，甚至可以不惜一切手段來(lái)不僅得到你有的東西，而且要奪去這些，這可能會(huì)讓你付出慘痛教訓(xùn)。如果朋友一定要得到一所比你更大更貴的房子，以顯得比你更成功，那么可能是擺脫她的時(shí)候了。

The Bloodsucker
寄生者

This friend is overly dependent on you for emotional support or information. True, it can be flattering to be needed, and of course, the Bloodsucker may be there for you when other friends are too busy for you. But this energy vampire can be draining, which is why you should consider if this friend is worth keeping. As long as you set limits and know that this person will probably make extreme demands on you, you could keep this person in your life.
這種朋友在情感方面或者信息方面過(guò)度依賴于你。被別人需要會(huì)讓你覺得很受用，這是真的，當(dāng)然，當(dāng)其他朋友因?yàn)樘Χ荒芘隳銜r(shí)，寄生者可能會(huì)站在你身邊。但這種精力吸血鬼會(huì)大量消耗你，這就是為什么你要考慮一下，是否這種朋友值得你交。只要你設(shè)有忍耐限度，并且知道這種人可能會(huì)對(duì)你作出過(guò)份要求，那么，你是可以與這種人來(lái)往的。

The Abuser
虐待狂

Don't tolerate anybody who verbally, physically or sexually abuses you. Of course, in some situations, it can be tough to figure out what constitutes abuse. Keep in mind, if someone is vicious and malicious in their comments and treatment of you, you're being verbally abused. Even sexual abuse may not be obvious, as it include subtle behaviors like making jokes that are offensive or sexual in nature, inappropriate comments or sexual harassment. If necessary, contact local police, counseling centers, victims programs, addiction programs or emergency hotlines for help. Then keep this kind of person away from you.
不要容忍任何言語(yǔ)上、身體上或性虐待你的人。當(dāng)然，在某些情形下，很難確定怎樣就構(gòu)成了虐待。記住，如果某人言論和談及你時(shí)惡意、不道德，你就受到了口頭虐待。雖然性虐待可能不太明顯，因?yàn)樗承┪⒚钚袨椋玳_些無(wú)禮或色情的玩笑，不適宜的談話或性騷擾。如果有必要，可以向當(dāng)?shù)鼐帧⒆稍冎行摹⑹芎φ呖祻?fù)項(xiàng)目，成癮康復(fù)項(xiàng)目和緊急狀況熱線求助，這會(huì)讓這種人遠(yuǎn)離你。