4. He's cried in front of you.
Whether he’s shed tears while watching The Notebook or because his dog died, he feels like he can be vulnerable around you. Taking off his macho nothing-can-hurt-me armor shows that he’s not afraid of being himself. If he doesn't try to hide it or act embarrassed, that could mean he’s envisioning going through a lot of ups and downs with you by his side. And he wants to be sure you’re cool with seeing his not-so-manly moments.

他在你面前哭泣
不管他是在看電影[筆記本]，還是因為狗死了流眼淚，他覺得他可以在你面前脆弱。脫掉自己男子漢式的“什么也傷害不到我”盔甲表明他不害怕做他自己。如果他不是努力想要隱藏（哭泣）或者表現出窘迫，那可能意味著他想象有你陪在他身邊一起經歷人生的起起落落。他想要確信當你看到他不是很男人的那一瞬間時，你會保持冷靜。

5. He's suddenly very responsible about finances.
Men tend to feel like they should be in a good place, money-wise before settling down with a woman. (Sure, it sounds old school, but it's true.) So if he seems more concerned with getting that promotion, contributing to his savings account, and opening a 401k, that's a sign he wants to be able to support someone in the near future (ahem, you).

關于經濟他突然變得非常有責任心
在和一個女人定下來前，男人傾向于認為自己在金錢方面，應該處境不錯（當然，聽起來很老派，但這是真的）。如果他似乎更加關心某個升職、充實自己的儲蓄帳戶以及開養老儲蓄帳戶等，那就是他想要在不久的將來有能力負擔一個人（呃，你）。