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Forget asking your boyfriend how he feels about your future together — that conversation just freaks guys out! Instead, learn to read the signals. If you've noticed any of these telling behaviors, it's official — the guy thinks you're wifey material.
不要問男朋友他如何看待你們倆共同的未來，這種談話只會把男人嚇壞，學會自己去捕捉信號。如果注意到他有下列行為流露之一，很正式的說，這個男人認為你適合做妻子
1. He wants to spend the holidays with you — wherever that takes him.
If he's willing to forgo his childhood traditions and chill at your parents' place — or skip family time altogether and take a trip with you — that means he's been thinking about creating new traditions and memories with you.
他想要和你共度節假日——不管是去哪兒
如果他愿意放棄孩童時代的習慣，而和你的父母呆在一起消遣，或者放棄與自己家人團聚時間，而和你出去旅游，那就意味著他在考慮要和你一起共同創造新的習慣和記憶。
2. He invites you to his best friend's wedding — without being pushed.
Watching a close buddy walk down the aisle is a momentous occasion. And he wouldn't want to share that with just any girl, especially since there are bound to be plenty of "So, are you two next?" comments. If your man invited you (and he seems psyched to have you there), chances are he foresees the possibility of you two walking down the aisle in the future.
他邀請你去參加最好的朋友的婚禮——非被動地
看著密友走結婚紅地毯是個很隆重的場合。他不會希望只是隨便與哪個女孩分享，尤其是因為在那里會有不少“這樣看來，你們倆是下一個嗎？”之類的話。如果你的男友邀請你（而且有你在那，他看起來很興奮），那么很有可能他預知你們倆將來一起走上紅地毯的可能性。
3. He drops the phrase "our kids".
Not to man-bash, but most guys have a hard time even thinking about starting a family until they meet the right girl. Saying something as seemingly minor as, "We wouldn't let our kids be that rude" means he's not only imagining it, he's expecting it to happen. And the thought doesn't send him running off to his man cave.
他冒出“我們的孩子”這樣的詞
不是打擊男人，而是大多數男人，即使只是想想建立一個家庭時都會覺得日子不好過，直到他遇到一個合適的女孩。說一些如“我們不會讓我們的孩子那么粗魯”這樣看起來微不足道的話，意味著他不僅僅是在設想了，他也期盼這個發生。意味著這個想法不會把他（嚇得）溜進他自己的私人空間（男人避世所）。
