Cut Ties To Your Ex

斷絕與前女友的聯系

Although this dating rule may be contentious for some readers, it is still an important step in the dating process. Just like a spring cleaning clears your space of clutter and cobwebs, removing an ex still present in your life after a breakup can free you to meet someone new. Of course there are circumstances where this may not be possible - such as if you have children together or work in the same office. But whenever possible, you need to remove your ex from your personal life, even if it is only temporary.

也許有些讀者對這個建議有爭議，但是這在約會中仍然是很重要的事情。就好像給你關系網中錯綜復雜的關系來個大掃除一樣，與前任斷絕關系的話可以給你重新開始的機會。當然了，也有些情況是不能這樣做的，比如你們共同撫養小孩，或者在同一個辦公室工作。但是只要有可能的話，你都要讓前任從你的私生活中消失，哪怕是暫時性這樣做也可以。