導(dǎo)讀:從“被動婚姻”到“自由戀愛”, 從“速配愛情”再到“丁克”家庭,從“剩女(3S lady)”流行到“我的生活我主宰”……每個年代的婚戀都打上了各自的時代烙印。 新中國成立60年來歷經(jīng)風(fēng)雨,中國人的婚戀觀也發(fā)生了翻天覆地的變化。
Attitudes to love and marriage continue to change since the first Marriage Law was introduced in 1950, and have to play catch-up with people's evolving love lives since then.
自1950年中國第一部《婚姻法》頒布之后,人們的婚戀觀念一直在轉(zhuǎn)變著;該法自誕生之日起就一直伴隨戀人們的腳步,與時俱進(jìn)著。
Wu Bo, the 55-year-old mother of a 23-year-old unwed son, was taken aback when Ma Nuo, 22, a model from Beijing said on China's most popular TV reality program Don't Bother Me: "I'd rather weep in a BMW than smile on the bicycle of my true love."
22歲的北京模特馬諾在熱門電視真人秀《非誠勿擾》中說:“我寧愿坐在寶馬里哭,也不愿坐在愛人的自行車后座上笑。”這番言論著實使現(xiàn)年55歲的吳波(音譯)大吃一驚。她的兒子今年23歲,目前還是單身。
"I don't like to generalize, but Ma's words show that young women today worship money. They won't get married unless their boyfriends have a house and a car. They're so mercenary," Wu says.
吳波說:“盡管我本人不喜歡以偏概全,但是馬諾的這番話將當(dāng)下年輕女性的拜金心理顯露無疑。她們是如此的金錢至上——除非男朋友有車有房,否則不會結(jié)婚。”