4. Using Insecure, Approval-Seeking Body Language。

　　使用不自信、征詢?cè)S可的身體語(yǔ)言

　　Have you ever acted polite and formal with a woman on the first date? You may have faked a few smiles and laughed at all her jokes, trying to maker her like you. It may be "nice," but women also think it's "wussy." She may not see it, but trust me when I say that she sees right through you.

　　在初次約會(huì)時(shí)，你是否曾對(duì)女人既禮貌又拘謹(jǐn)？你可能時(shí)不時(shí)地堆出虛偽的笑容，聽(tīng)完她說(shuō)的所有笑話都裝著笑出來(lái)，以試圖讓她喜歡上你。也許這看上去“和藹可親”，但女人也會(huì)認(rèn)為這是“老實(shí)巴交”。別以為她可能沒(méi)看出來(lái)，但請(qǐng)相信我，她看透了你。