2. Being Clingy And Insecure

　　粘乎乎，不自信

　　By "clingy," I don't mean physically touchy-feely - although women can be turned off by such behavior. But being psychologically clingy is even worse. You're psychologically clingy when you never leave her side when you're walking around the department store, or when you keep asking if she likes you or if you're her type. This kind of insecurity make women think you're a pest.

　　這里的“粘乎乎”并非指身體上的過(guò)于卿卿我我——盡管這種行為也有可能不招女人待見(jiàn)。而心理上的粘乎乎則更糟糕。心理上的粘乎乎表現(xiàn)在：當(dāng)你們逛百貨商場(chǎng)時(shí)，你寸步不離她左右；或者，你老是問(wèn)她是否愛(ài)你，或問(wèn)你是不是她想要的那種類型。這種不自信使得女人覺(jué)得你很招人煩。