3. Not Leading, Or - Worse - Trying To Get Her To Lead
不去主導,甚或更糟——讓她去主導
When you plan to take her out to dinner, but keep asking her whether the time and place is okay for her, then you're giving her the impression that you don't know how to handle a relationship. Women find it wussy, and it annoys the heck out of them.
當你計劃帶她出去吃晚飯時,卻一個勁兒地問她所定的時間和地點對她是否合適,于是你就給她留下了這樣一個印象:你不知道如何去處理好一段關系。女人覺得這是懦弱無能的表現,她們非常討厭這一點。