5. Say You’re Sorry Every Day
Apologizing is a lot like learning a foreign language. The more you practice it in real-life situations, the better you become at it.
If you don’t do something worth saying sorry for every day, you’re either an angel or completely blind to your own inadequacy. You need not commit some great damage against your partner before saying you’re sorry. Just be yourself. In the course of being yourself you’ll say something without thinking, forget to pick up something from the store, or complain about your day without asking about your partner’s. You’re a master at making mistakes! =)
The more you ask for forgiveness, the easier it will be to admit to and gain forgiveness for all the things you do that might drive your partner away if not taken care of. Its never easy to swallow your pride and admit to screwing something up. But you need to do this and make a habit of it if you want to make your relationship the best it can possibly be.
5. 每天說你抱歉
道歉很像學(xué)一門外語。在真實生活中你越加練習(xí),你說得越好。
如果你每天并沒有做什么值得道歉的事,你要么是天使要么是完全盲視自己的不足。在說對不起之前,你不需要做巨大地傷害愛人的事。只是做你自己。在做你自己的過程中,你會不經(jīng)過思考說一些話,忘記在商店買一些東西,或者不問愛人過得如何只是抱怨你的今天過得糟糕。你是生產(chǎn)錯誤的主人!
你越請求原諒,越容易承認(rèn)你做的所有事都會獲得原諒,如果不小心的話,這很容易讓的愛人離開。放下你的驕傲和承認(rèn)把某件事弄遭了并不是件容易的事。如果你想盡可能地經(jīng)營好你的愛情,你需要這么去做,并且養(yǎng)成習(xí)慣。